Okay one of the reasons that I’m make this article is because I want to post the truth about Thai girls. I see so many things in Pattaya that I can trust Thai girls anymore. I don’t talk about all the girls that work in Pattaya, but unfortunately for most of them. Is many things that white-men have to know about Thai girls. But all depending on what you looking for. You come in Thailand only for fun? Or you looking for something more? Unfortunately today most of the girls especially bar-girls and freelance girls from walking street have at list 3 to 5 white men that send money to them. Most money go to drugs some to family and the rest to Thai boyfriend. You want to be one of this guys and support this girls? I don’t thing so. But perhaps you are one of them and you don’t know it yet. Just remember, Thai girls are so sweet that can make you crazy. Many men especially from England come to Thailand for a month and thing that they found truth love, they get crazy send money and make visa for them. I see 100s of girls spend the money that ferrang send to drugs and with Thai boyfriends. And at the same time the sponsor boyfriend or husband thinks that his tirrak was in the village. But Really, why there are so many Thai girls living in Europe? and especially in England? Is anybody never wonder why? Is because English men get more and more lonely or despair?
Is because English girls are so feminist or active more like males then females? Is this some of the reasons that UK men’s married mostly Thai bar-girls? or is something more. In the beginning was only old fat English guys that take Thai girls back home, but today more and more young guys are make the same mistake. Today communication lost in most of European countries and as a result many people stay single.
People not flirting anymore when they go out in the bars and clubs. Is Thai girls the solution for a lonely European guy or is going to destroyed his life more? Thai restaurants and spas are growing up like mushrooms especially in Britain. I don’t have any problem with Thai cuisine as is one of my favorites but that means that Thai bargirls have surrounding Europe right? Did you know that 80 percent of the Farang (White Guys) that make visa for Thai girls in pattaya are from UK and mostly from England? Also most of them divorce after about 3 to 4 years, when the Thai-wife finally gets her English passport. Because of the poverty in Thailand, Thai bar-girls can promise and say anything to a white guy, for better life or money. But that’s what you looking for? Thai girls scams are famous all over the world. Can Thai girls really love white guys? From my experience is possible but it is not happen so often, for many reasons.
First reason is that white guys normally looking in the worst places in Thailand to find girls. Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket. This is the most famous places about Thai bar-girls scams. Most of the girls that come to work in that places are already destroyed from Thai ex husbands. If you are long time in places like Pattaya you will listen crazy stories from Thai bargirls about them life’s and why they come to work there. Most of them they have at list 1 child that have to take care. I see so many things in Pattaya that I can trust Thai girls anymore. I don’t find it a good idea to following in love with Thai girl if you don’t have experience about the Thai culture and how this girls thinking in general. The first thing you will notice if you come in Thailand as a foreigner many years is that for Thai people you going to be always, Farang (White Guy). Is many things that white-men have to know about girls. But all depending on what you looking for. So new guys there, you must be extremely careful. Most of young guys come to Pattaya and get crazy with bargirls, they make visa for them, they become sponsors and in the worst case they married with them. If a Thai girl loves you then tell her to get a normal job. However you love your Thai Wife Or Girlfriend remember that Thai culture is really different from western culture.
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I’m a thai girl. I just visited this website by chance while i was surfing the net. U are quite right about Pattaya. Can i ask u sth?…Thailand has so many beautiful places. U just visited Pattaya? or travel around?. And if the western guys like thai girls, need thai girls to be with them. why do u guys go bar or sth like that?…trust me!! The most of thai girls are so nice and sweet and educational..
Sweet yes…. educational hmm… most of Thai girls are not. Im going to Thailand 15 years now. From capital Bangkok to Issaan and from Nakhon Sawan to Chiang Mai. And I can tell you that most of the Thai girls on that places come to Pattaya, Phuket and Koh Samui for work as bar-girls. So whats the different anyway if Im from Surin im not going to behave the same because is my place and everybody knows me. The lies is inside Thai culture. I know 100s of Thai men married and have 3 or 4 Mia-noi (small wife).
I’m not sure what u guys are talking about. maybe my english in not perfect. I Think the most of Thai girls are so nice. have a nice career. I’m from South of Thailand but now i live in bkk. i will graduate soon and after that i will go to europe. no one farang guy support me. I dont understand why western guys go to pattaya or somewhere like that for find a gf or wife. I have been everywhere that u said. and i think u can choose u want a bar girl or nice girl to be ur gf or wife. i think if u go bar for for find a gf or wife…u are not nice guys also…but if for fun maybe it’s ok. ….so open ur mind, time changed, ppl changed…and i think u know what u should do!!!
don,t make the same mistake .
Western men are so freaking stupid when it comes to Thai poonani. BTW, I’m a Thai woman, so don’t go all ape$hit on me thinking I’m a man. If I had a dollar for every disgusting, white, old man who wanted to bang me because they thought I’d be submissive and kinky, and that I’d let them do me in the a$$, I’d be driving a Mercedes instead of an Acura. It is SO easy to manipulate these men who have preset notions about Thai women. The two things they correctly assume about me ARE true–I am amazing in bed and my mouth and tongue can suck better than a Hoover vacuum. And that’s all. I’m incredibly bossy and dominant, and am in no way a typical Thai girl. I’m 5’10″, have DD size breasts and a sizable mean streak that I love to crack open on men who least expect it. And you know where this all comes from? The Thai culture so dominated by men. My father cheated so many times on my my mother–and I’ve known about it since I was five years old. I’m sure you don’t have a doubt where my bitterness started. So if “farang” men continue to act like complete idiots, Thai women everywhere will continue to manipulate them, use them, and laugh behind their backs. Take it from one who got her “kicks” in stateside.
First, not all ferang are stupid as you see in my post. Second the only thing that is stupid is to play with people mine and feelings just for money or better life. And finaly Ferangs are not your father. If you try to find exuse for your life this is your problem. Anyway you dont sound so girly. And not so happy as well. I understand your culture but I dont understand why you proud of it. The only thing you are right is that Western men are so freaking stupid when it comes to Thai poonani.
OK FOR siameseGrin so u get your thrills off manipulateing old white men that are old and probaly going senile. you are the biggest biatch i know. im 20 im white and in good shape. when i went to thailand you trying it on with me i found it the biggist turn off. il never go to pattaya im not that sort of person to pay for sex. i whent hua hin and bangkok and found people very friendly. i also think its wrong for old fat peados to pray on young thai women and for that i appolagise. but just so you know dont you dare insult white people you racist biatch and get your self a life. im sorry for what men do in your culture but i will never cheat on my woman and me and my gf are both even. THANK YOU AND GOODNIGHT
no one perfect!!! everywhere has good and bad ppl.
it depends on u. u can choose what u want to be.. what u want to got..
I 100% agree no one is perfect. why do you guys go to Pattaya. take it your wife left you and you too fat and ugaly to find your self a good girl. its guys like you that make people like me look bad. I will never go Pattaya. I dont know why people go there and think they can have a good relationship. When i was in thailand i was in Hua Hin and i found like THAI GIRL says before most of the thai women/men very sweet and educated. I went with my gf from japan. we had great time and love to go back. So why dont you come here to Hua hin forget people like that racist SiameseGrin and dont go been stupid and try to keep it in your trowsers you disgusting fowl men u on your own live with it…….
Oh calm the hell down. To the wanker, militant engrish geek, who called me a biatch, I said it was easy to manipulate the ones who already had preset notions (translated–stereotypes) about me because of my Thai background. That makes them as racist as one of you claimed I am. So what do you think of that? The nice ones, I respected. The ones who thought I would be a “certain way” and treated me as such, got what they deserved–especially when they’d put their hands on my head and try to get me to do a certain something. Don’t these freaks know most women all over the world don’t appreciated having their heads guided south? Anyways, I should edit my post and say “a lot of western men”, because it isn’t all of them. Now regarding my anger: it’s accepted in my parents’ Thai culture that men have a “mia noi” but some go nuts and have several. I grew up in the US, but the culture followed us here. I don’t know if the younger generations in Thailand are still doing this. I’m incredibly angry, still, because my mother didn’t deserve the pain she went through. I need a therapist for the anger, yes, I am aware. My apologies if my previous post touched a nerve or two. I was pissed.
yes i agree they sholdnt do that to you u but u the 1 opaning your legs for them. we all had are problams i dont have father or mother anymore but theres a few issues that you need to get over. its history but now. but as for raceist im not as i have japanese gf who i love more then anyone. but you need to sort it out. 2 wrongs dont make a right and just because thai men have mia noi most white men dont and i will never do that to my girl. as for stereotypes arnt you just making people stereotype more i know not all thai women from your background are like that as i know many who now live in uk. so dont get me wrong but you need to find someone nice thai mainly who will look after you and you cant be angry no more you need to get over it as i have over my personal issues
Let’s face it if a 45 year old white guy is going to marry a very young beautiful Thai girl he must realize she may have an affair from time to time.. It is no different than marrying an American Girl.
I think the guy should be forgiving because he too may be playing the field. The important thing is to find a nice girl who is not going to hurt you, take your money away and stuff like that.
I know of a Navy guy and he married a Thai girl. He is underway most of the time.. She is very nice. They been happily married for 15 years and have 3 beautiful babies…
My point is use your gut feeling when you meet your dream future Thai wife. They are not all bad..
Bill, don’t waste your feeling and money anymore. Obviously she is a gold digger. What she did, as I am one of Thai girls, it is so shameful for my country. But don’t think all the girls are just like that. People are different. We were raised in the different way different society different environment and different family.I don’t know why lots of foreigners are aim to Pattaya and look for relationship which they suppose to know already that Pattaya is only for sex.
Anyway, I just feel a bit upset when I read this article when you say “the truth about Thai girls” and yes I am Thai what should I feel. I am not what you said at all and I am too far from that kind of society. Then how can it be “the truth”?
Only sorry for that kind of girls, she may forgot what is right what is wrong already. But don’t blame it all on her, blame it on everything around her that drag her to become like “THIS TYPE OF GIRL”.
Peace,,,
*sorry for my ENG,, ur language is so *_*
Tense and grammar.. YUK !!
So why dont you just stick to you own kined like most good white guys like myself. I been thailand but lucky im not attractid to thai. So was very good holiday. Am going again soon. You do get white ladies on holiday there. Im 20 so still young so have fun
if u seek a good gf or wife better choose filipino women cuz they r excellent home keepers and well educated. they r renowned to be the most beautiful women in asia, also renowned for their inside and outside beauty, they are delight to be around because of their disposition and personality, they r understanding, patient and composed, generous and naturally caring and supportive.they are simple people deprive of wealth but rich in culture and values.
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Pattaya is the largest brothel in the world. That’s all it is. If you go there looking for anything other than hired sex, you’ll be disappointed.
I’m a middle aged man who lived in Pattaya for 3 months. It was a great feeling to strut down the road with my fat gut sticking out and have gorgeous babes smile at me. “Sexy man, where you go” they chanted. Yep, that was me, a fat sexy old white man. One day I could hear the girls behind me saying the same thing. I turned around to see if they were talking to me. They weren’t, they were talking to a different sexy man. This guy must have been about 80 years old and was pulling his oxygen tank.
Pattaya is “Fantasy Island” on steroids. Fortunately for me, I was able to recognize it as such. Many of these dumb Farang aren’t able to see it. They actually think that the beautiful 19 year old is in love with someone as old as their grandpa. The only thing they are in love with is grandpa’s wallet.
I talked to a bar girl once and she told me she was looking for a serious relationship. I asked her to define “serious relationship” (her English was very good) She told me that for her it would mean a guy who was committed to visiting her every year. I asked her how long they would have to stay during their visit and she told me two weeks.
Well, it just doesn’t get anymore serious than that! Wow, what a commitment. What she was really looking for was about 10 serious relationships, each sending money every month. Then after work she runs to the Internet shop and video chats with one of them each day. The only thing she has to worry about is if more than one of the saps want to come during the same two weeks to visit.
If you want a good laugh, go into one of the many Internet shops in Pattaya take a peak across the booth at the 20 year old video chatting with her old-fat-fart boyfriend. You can’t hear what he’s saying because she’s wearing headphones, but you can hear her. “Hello honey, I sure miss you. I hope you don’t mind but I used 10 baht of the money you sent me to buy rice for my friend Sallyporn. Sallyporn has no money or food and I didn’t think you’d mind” You can see the old fatso grinning from ear to ear with a Budweiser resting on his gut. He’s so impressed that his young girlfriend is worried about 30 cents of his money. What a gal. What she forgot to tell Fatso was about her taking her Thai boyfriend to Walking Street to a nice Go Go bar and buying him 120 baht drinks all night. The Thai boyfriend likes to go there because he gets tired of just looking at her hard body, he likes a little variety. If the Thai guy plays his cards right, he’ll get about 6 drinks in her too. After she’s all glossy-eyed he can tell her how much he loves her and how much it would mean for him if she paid one of the dancers 2,000 baht to come back to their apartment with them. She’ll agree. Like the magical powers the Thai ladies have over the stupid Farang, the Thai men have magical powers they hold over the stupid Thai ladies.
Hi Guys,
what the hell are you discusing here? thyai culture? Thai Girl? Pattaya culture?….
I was just laughing about what I read here.
let me make it easy for u all with one question:
do u want to have a whore as a wife ? if yes, then find it in the bars (such as pattaya) .
all western guys are ATM machine for bar girls , that is the fact.
Have been in Thailand more than 100 times in 25 years , know everything about them, Not all are bad , Not all are cheating …different places , different ppl…just get use to it.
tips: Read the book: Private Dancer
im 25 years old , im a fit goodlooking man from england, i had many english girls but i always liked thai girls wen i was 20 i went to pattaya and fell in love with a girl my own age , i sent money for a few months but 1 day i rang and a farang answered while he was having sex with my so called girlfriend ,,,,,, it took me 3 years to get over her but i still went back to pattaya and just f-ed women , i guess i wanted revenge so i took it out on other girls i know this is bad and im sorry for that now ,,,,,,,, recently i met a new girl in pattaya she stayed with me for a month and i never sent money i fell in love again ,,,,,,,, but i never sent money she sms me everyday telling me she loved me and want me to be her husband i was so happy , then she add me on facebook and i look at her picture ,,,,,, now i know she has 5 men send money to she and she drive big big car,,,,,,,,,,,,,, and i contact other people and they say she tell them same me that she loves them and want marry them ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,these thai bar girls are not human beings they are spawn of satan AND I HOPE THEY BURN IN HELL THE SCUMBAGS I HATE THOSES GIRLS SO MUCH
The pattern seems to be so identical in every case. I too fell for a beautiful thai bargirl completely by accident at Nana Plaza. I took the situation with a grain of salt, but their personality is so seducing, that if you spend more than 2 days with them, you really do appreciate them for how they conduct themselves. This was my 3rd business trip and although the locals would tell me to “be careful”, they didn’t really explain the emotional manipulation that these girls perfect. Honestly they could carve you into pieces with a butchers knife and on your last breath, you still gaze into their eyes looking for happiness with them. I really do commend them for the perfection of manipulation. I wish you all the very best in avoiding their mermaid traps, as well versed in women as I think I am, they really redefine the luster of temptation.
Are you going to Thailand to seek for a wife and want to marry a girl from a strip bar? Marry her to save her from the dreadfull life?
Remember that you would marry a girl who has no education, who has to support her family in far away Isan, who is in the business for many years or who might be 3x younger than you…
There is cultural difference – Thai – Western; education level; poverty level; expectation level…
Everything will be different from what she expected and from what you expected. Mostly she just likes you because of the better life you can provide. Can you?
I have seen young women calling after her (really) old bf: I love you(r wallet)…
A friend of mine married an Indonesian: all he did was working, while she was bored to death in her small apartment in Milano. It ended up in a divorce.
There are sometimes exceptions… one of my friends is such… we nearly married about ten years ago, but I broke up with her because I thought she was too young and I was not free at that time.
But we stayed in touch, so I had a pretty good idea of her married life. And I must say that the way she developed I sometimes regret that I never made that step.
Never found anything like her and probably never will…
She didn’t sleep around, she was just looking for a nice guy who was willing to take her in and marry her….and she planned to be good for him.
She too had a turbulent marriage… it took years before her husband trusted her. But she proofed him to be trustworthy. I met her a few times (she lives in Australia and I in Germany, but we managed to meet a few times in Bangkok). We talked and we consider us as kind of brother and sister. I always respected her ways as she did mine and that’s why we could keep in touch.
What I try to say: if you find your soulmate, stick to her… I found her and didn’t.
But be carefull…. 99% of the women who work in bars are not the right kind of person to be with for longer term.
I really like the story of the fat guy… very honoust! Very true.
Jack I will agree with you 100/100…
Is possible to meet your soulmate but you must be carefull with your Thai wife Or Girl-friend because you never know!
If you go looking for a girlfriend in Pattaya then you’re looking in the wrong place! Would you marry a bar girl in the UK? I think not. Is it any wonder these girls take english guys for a ride. Personally I don’t blame them at all. I married a women from down south and several of my friends have married genuine woman and are very happy. My wife is my soul mate and she has never wanted a thing from me. If you go looking under rocks you’ll find snakes – simple. To all the genuine Thai Women don’t worry not all farang keep there brain in their trousers and most educated farang men know the difference between genuine and bar girls. Shok Dee
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