Why White Guys Like Asian Girls - Why Asian Women Want White Men. Okay in this post I will explain why white men prefer Asian women and why Asian women want white men. I travel to Asia for 15 years now and I see almost every country. And if you ask me I can tell you that honestly I also like Asian girls more. And I don’t mean all Asian-style but mostly oriental, Japanese, Indonesian, Vietnamese, Chinese, Philippine or Thai. That’s why let me start with why white men like Asian women. In every place that I visit in Asia I meet a lot of travelers (males) from different countries and regions and all of them they ask the same question how very attractive these women are when compared to European and American women !!!
Okay first Asian women make the best wives, yes, not all of them, but most of them. Second Why are the Asians girls attractive? American and European girls say that Asian women are sexually easy.
I don’t thing so, the only different that I see is that American and European girls are not honest about sex, Asian girls they want to live and live for today. When they get married they stop to play around. American and European girls when they go out for drink in a club, bar or party they give the impression that they do not want to be with guys. For what ? What they want to prove ? When in the same time they complain that men don’t come to talk to them anymore. Asia women do not seem to have anything to prove, they love to be women and are not the enemy. Third Asian women are kind and they know to behave, compeer to spoil American and European girls that want everything. By the way this is our fold, we make the women to be spoil and I see that many times when a white guy married Asia girl ( I see that many times in Thailand with Thai girls) the girl change, and that is because white guys thing that if you give more to a women she is going to love you more. I don’t thing so. Another thing is that Asia girls are more girls, they have 100/100 female hormones. They dress like girls and they act like girls, look at the American and European women in the Spot. With the stupid idea of the feminists they lose complete all the female side of them. They dress like men they talk like a men and they make love like a men. Why Do Asian Girls Love Sex ? I thing is the culture of Buddhism, Buddhism don’t say that sex is a bad thing, compeer to the middle age Christianity that ran in our DNA and sex must be punish. I found sex very important and we need to be more honest at list with our self’s.
Why Asian Women Want White Men ?
First everybody likes deferens, second I thing white men looks more men compeer to Asian guys. They fell more security and Asian girls love
to see and study other cultures. Okay I’m sorry but I have to say it, I thing the size is also one of the reasons.
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I thing I know why white guys like Asian women.
I also love Asia girls, they make great sex,
and there are make you feel
that you are the men! I dont know about European girls
but American girls change so much in a bad way.
I think its because Asian women show more respect twards the man. They dont generally like to fight (although they tend to be exteremly jelous). They think the family structure is the most important thing in the world. Im talking about native Asians that is. To divorce or even break up is shameful. I encourage any white guy to seek a forign Asian wife. They appreciate his love and attentiveness so much more. Its been 2 years now and I still havent been able to marry my Filipino fiance.
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Why white guys like asian girls ? Is not obvious ? Asian girls are still girls and I’m not talking about the American or European Asia girls because believe me there are more stupid even from the normal ones. But girls that living in Asia are still cool and they know how to make a men happy. This is one of the reasons everybody go there including me.
wth? i don know where did you guys get those perceptions…
Well, I am an asian who lives in us. Yes, lots of white and black guys crush on me. However, I guess they just wonder how we make a love. ONLY SEX. Most of guys want to sleep with asian girls not for further relationship. Be Honest guys! just say it !
Yes, guys like sex but guys fall in love too. I have a fiance in the Fillipines who I cant wait to marry. Many American women have forgotten how to make a man happy and be truely attractive. It’s kind of a forgotten art. Thats why so many men are looking for wives overseas. If a girl wants to attract sincere men she should never cut him down. This makes him want her just for sex.
I don’t thing you are from Asia Hannah and even if you are, you have grown up in US like you say.
I will agree with Paul that Asian girls that living in Us or Europe have nothing to do with the Asian girls that living in Asia.
Is all about character. And Asian girls that living in a places like Thailand Philippines or China and Vietnam know very well that guys fall in love too. And that’s the big reason that white guys like Asian girls.
I totally agree with you. It seems that western women have developed a culture among themselvs that makes them unappealing in terms of attraction. The wierd thing is that they don’t seem to realize this. I hear them talk as if it is the man who is at fault. Asian women tend to monitor their own behavior better. They seem to look more inwardly if they see a problem in the relationship. With western women it always seems to be the mans fault. I find this kind of arrogant irresponsability to be unattractive.
Pride cometh before a fall.
I am from Indonesia, i found this site because i like white man in fact my english not good.
i meet white man from Internet, he is nice and sweet to me and He will come to visit me and i am very happy. I hoped he will like me.
i really appreciate to this article , i think that is maybe because i am Asian.
i like white man because i think he know how to treat the woman and if you said asian women know how to make the man happy so this mean white guys with asian woman it was the great couple.
i can`t to wrote more better but i try with my english.
i am an asian female and i think when you talk about asian girls, don’t generalize the stereotype so much. there are so many asian females out there who aren’t like this. you guys are just describing women who are traditional, in a sense. i guarantee you’ll find this type of female who’s “european or white or western.”
and concerning mike’s comment, i just want to point out that even if you think “arrogant, irresponsible” women (apparently western) need to look inwards instead of outwards with problems, keep in mind that men do the exact same thing and need to look inwards more often too during problems. in fact, that sort of “solving the problem” issue crosses any sexual or racial border.
i think white guys like asian girls because they like the stereotype of asian women. the small, petite, polite, bubbly asian girl who’s ultra feminine. and this article plus some of these comments proved exactly that. you’re in love with the stereotype, not the reality of asian women and their diversity. therefore you seek out asian women who fit your stereotype.
I’m surprised to find so many articles and discussions about men’s preferences over Asian girls. As an Asian girl myself(I’m from Malaysia, btw), it amuses me when people argue about why white men should prefer Asian girls more than white/western girls.I dont know about other cultures but I kinda feel that it’s true to some extent that the Asian girls are more reserved and more “old-fashioned” when it comes to relationships..My culture taught me to be more indirect ( by this I mean as Malaysians we try to preserve the concept of face-not openly criticizing others, being indirect in our communication, being polite and feminine,etc etc).I’m currently studying in the UK and have experienced the same things myself.A good friend of mine said that he finds Malaysian girls very attractive,Idk why, to the extent he’s asking me to find a suitable spouse for him!I think it’s a matter of preference, really:)
I think it is true of Native Asian women but American born Asian women seem to take on the same attitudes as their American counterparts. I agree that Asian Women and American Men seem to get along better in the long run. American Women say it’s because Asians are ’submissive” but to me it’s just good manners. Maybe this is the part that the Americans are missing. I know I’m happy with my Filipino girl. Many other Western men are discovering the secrete themselves.
Wow…I didn’t know that Caucasian men have such high regard for Asian women ;p Well, I have always been attracted to Caucasian men, not because I think that they’re better than Asian guys, but because if i were to ever ever ever have kids, I’d like them to be good looking. Having grown up alongside Hollywood films & western media representations, it is quite natural for me to develop a liking for the Caucasian looks. However, I find that not many Caucasian men have the family-loving qualities that Asian men have - ie, it is extremely easy for me to get a Caucasian date, but not so easy to find someone who wants a soul mate
I hope to someday find me a asian soulmate. For me it’s both physical and personality but I am not just looking for sex. I really think asian women are more in tune with my life style then these american barbarians, while not every woman here is like that, but all the single ones in my age group seem to be.
What man doesn’t like a female asian face I mean come on their irresistible. American women don’t feel the same way toward asian men?
I’m white btw, born and raised in Washington state. 21 now lived here most of my life.
I’m not sure that Asian women are more “submissive”;p lol. Career-wise, we are very ambitious. But we won’t allow career ambitions to interfere with our roles as a wife and mother. My elder sis, who’s a Finance Director at a large corporation, is also the perfect woman at home - does all the housework, takes care of her kids. Her hubby helps out of course, but out of his own will - not because she asked him to. I will probably do the same for my partner, not because I’m submissive, but perhaps, out of love:) It’s only natural that you would want to do things for someone if you love him, true? I wouldn’t consider that as “submissiveness”… Say, for instance, if I have a partner who smokes, I’d probably get him to quit. I wouldn’t be saying, “Hon, you can puff as much as you want”
I’m an asian guy from southeast asia. In my country i see many western men with asian women as their partner and i cant help to notice that all their partners are usually young good looking ladies but not the men. So the fact that these women like western men just cos of the way they are treated is kinda bullshit. Western men have a lot of money and these women like that, and plus they get to migrate to cold climate countries. On the other hand its true that asian women are generally more good looking than typical western girls cos they are cute, small in size and have good skin. SO for western men its all about sex,not love. Most of them are indeed perverts who failed to win over women of their own kind
i am mongolian girl, here also lot of girls like white guys, becaz of not only money, mongolian guys hate girls who likes white man, they think all of those girls are prostitute, its difficult to have white bfriend here, about me i hate mongolian men too much, becaz girls respect them , cook , wash their clothes , cheer them up, to be faithfull, no party ( like their house keeper or pet) but mongolian men forget to respect their wives , make them happy and protect, give attention. they dont know all women have heart, own dream and like sencitive flower. guys drink too much vodka and drug, lazy and heart is too cold. for example my father , brother, my 2 neighbours always hit their wives and drink vodka. its very common in mongolia. thats why i really hate mongolian men and love white men. and also there are not only thai, philipin, china , japan in asia. mongolian girls are much better than china, thai , philipin girls, we are much taller than them, nice body, usually white skin, very beautifull
I’ve loved Asian girls since i was 5 years old, that was pure “i think they’re pretty” back then as i knew nothing about the culture.
I had never dated an asian girl until i was 27. A Second generation Canadian Cantonese girl. Unfortunately that didn’t work out. But it was a much better experience than the Canadian girls i had dated previously.
After her I dated another white girl and i think that was it for me.
I’m currently engaged to a girl from Cebu City, Phillipines who moved to Canada just 4 years ago. To me she’s very attractive. Meek but not weak and understands that to have a successful relationship, we both need to respect each other and act according to our genders.
American and Canadian feminism are only serving now to put 2 men in a household and that’s a territorial faux-pas.
My experiences dating asian women are not extensive but as of now would never go back. In fact, hopefully i’ll never date again.
I accidentally ran to this website because I both like and mad at this American guy, but I was really curious to know how he really feels but too afraid to ask him..
I was just wondering, what is the first thing that a white guy notices from an Asian girl? I am from Indonesia and really looking for a serious relationship with a white guy. But it seems so difficult to find a nice guy with a genuine intention on the net.
just like this American guy that I like. I knew him from a dating site, we exchanged emails, pictures-including private pics and clips- almost every day when he was out at sea. but now, after he was back from his deployment, the frequency becomes less and less frequent.. when he was deployed, his emails were so sweet, and i was really swept away by them.. well, call me stupid, i know that this kind of guy was not a bf or even husband material, but i dunno.. i think i just have a huge crush on him. i thought that he prefers to see me naked on cam instead of having a real conversation with me. i am NOT a cam girl..
ok, so i don’t really like white guys before. i always thought that they are only into sex and short time relationship. never or hardly ever for a serious one. but this opinion changed since my uncle is also a white guy and he is totally different. and i just wish i could find a really nice white guy out there. but then again, this American fellow ruins it..
well, any suggestions probably from white guys out there somewhere…
How can you be serious about internet relationship?
Well, I don’t actually. But three friends of mine met their husbands through the internet dating. I was quite skeptical about it at first, now I really want to try it. Who knows…
If you mean serious as in real relationship, I don’t really think so. I am not that stupid. Just try my luck on internet dating sites.
No pressure. After all, not all dating sites are fake or for fun only, aren’t they?
i might to out of topic , It may be true that most asian girl think white are attractive , you guys may think that when you come to thailand with is like sex tourlism especially swedish men , they said they come to thailand to get a wife here , most of them are retired , they are old and already have a wife . Most of the time the prostitute in thailand wanna be us citizen or live with a white guy cause they do have a lots of money , they are trying to get away from their poverty cause most of them came from rural area, and it’s not even cool i heard that their parent make them to be a prostitute , it’s a sad story ,somewhat they get to white guy’s white and somewhat white guys just act like they are a hored and those bastard might have STD , and it seemed like white like thai girl are easy , it’s not very one thought , it probably just girls in pattaya , i think it appropicated thing over there , bytheway I’m thai exchange student in us , which is wondering what don’t white girl don’t think as men think that asian are attractive , it more likely american boy like think asian are hot .
my gramar may not correct , it’s not my first language .. apologize
I am going with a filipino girl she is my everything and to be honest them american white girls have that bad attitude on them! Im not trying to sound mean but i have 2 kids by a white woman we didnt work out and i meet this filipino lady and she is so respectful honest and everything!!! So my topic is i love my asian forever!!!!
I am going to the Phillipines this summer, hopefully I will find a wife. I am white, live in Baltimore. I had a white girlfriend, but she was mean to me. She always complained that I played video games too much and watched too many movies while she did all the housework. I want a woman who won’t complain about that. Plus, I like women with flat chests. My ex had an hourglass figure, with round hips and breasts. At first I really liked that, but then I started noticing other men looking at her. I want a woman that doesn’t draw attention to herself in public, and one that will keep quiet when I don’t want to hear from her. I know asian women have weird shaped fingers and yellowy, oily, porous skin, and sometimes smell like garlic, but I’m willing to put up with that to have a warm body to lie next to me at night and cook me dinner. As long as its not chinees food. She’ll have to learn how to cook American food. Ever since my ex dumped three years ago, this has been my dream.
Roger, you are not looking for a wife, you are looking for a maid. N furthermore, “weird shaped fingers and yellowy, oily, porous skin” seriously?? And that asians smells like garlic? I think you meant the senior citizens? And mind you, when people grow old, they all have “weird fingers” because of weakening bones. I don’t mean to be rude Roger, but oh Roger, you are really mistaken, and I feel so sorry for you. Btw Roger, I am a south-east asian girl with chinese ancestry. But no, I dont smell like garlic.
Amanda, you are not being rude. Roger is looking for a maid. He sounds like a lazy ass, whose ex dumped him, cause he was getting fat, insecure, and jealous and she was a confident, beautiful woman who wasn’t going to take anymore of his bullshit and realized she deserved better.
No Filipino girl is going to marry you, and if she does shes only looking to get out of her country for this so called better life that you have convinced her shes going to get with you.
By the way your Filipino “wife” will not be cooking you chinese food, IDIOT!…she will be cooking you filipino food!
And you are not looking for a wife, you are looking for someone to praise you, shut up and do whatever you tell her… why not just get a slave by mail, and you won’t even have to leave your couch!
Well this is pretty unfair to the asian guys then. In all honesty, as an asian guy myself, we treat the asian girls with full respect but most of the time ignored. Whenever a white guy or black guy comes around, the attention is brought to them and whatever we do is just ignored. Asian men just can’t fit the general public. i mean, since when has an asian guy been an ideal love partner? I asked my asian female friends and they ideally prefer a white guy. They always want a white guy. I mean we got better personalities than white men do and probably more talented. Has it been noticed? No…….
Sorry, speaking form what i see. But god fucking damn, it is one hell of a pet peeve
That sucks asianguy, might be true but there are still a lot of asian women with asian men who wouldn’t ever consider dating outside their own race. I agree with you though on top of that most of the asianguys I ‘ve seen are om educated and thoughtful. I’m white and I agree but I still like asian women.
I don’t know where to begin……. I think it all depends on the person, every body has their own reasons why they want to date an Asian girl or a girl in general. I do feel for asianguy above, I have been living in China for 4 years and have met a lot of Asian men that have GREAT personalities and treat their girlfriends/wife’s very well but I have seen the opposite too. So I do think they do deserve more credit. But I also know lots of Asian girls who have told me that they don’t want to date a white or black guy. They said its not that they are not attractive and wouldn’t be good boyfriends/husbands but they just prefer Asian guys. Now I do think that the asianguy above is arrogant and neive to think that all Asian guys have better personalities and more talented then western guys. Now I am not saying that Asian guys don’t have great personalities because I have met a lot that have amazing personalities and also a lot that have shitty and crappy personalities. The same with western guys. But I also know that Asian guys need to have more confidence in themselves, confidence in getting a girlfriend/wife whether she is white, black, or asian. I have asked girls about what they like in a guy ( I have asked white, black, and asian girls) and they all told me that they have to have confidence in themselves, they said they didn’t care what race they are, they have to be confident that they can get me as a girlfriend and in themselves then I will notice him. Obviously they said other things that they liked in a person but for almost all of them they said confidence is big!!! I think asian guys are selling themselves short! I am an American single guy and I am not looking for anything, I love my single life right now and I prefer it to be that way for a while. But I do know about 4 or 5 American girls that I met here in China that Want to have a asian boyfriend or even a husband but they say that the guys here in China don’t have the confidence to come talk to them because they are afraid. I am telling you there are more white girls looking to have a asain boyfriend or husband then most people think! I know a lot. But I also think people should start realising that our world is becoming more and more culturally mixed and start excepting the fact that it going to happen whether you like it or not. so you can sit there and bitch and cry about it all you want but its not going to change. I also think that unless you have been to both America or any western country and China or anywhere in Asia you have no right to sit there and slump one culture or gender together just because of one or two things you have seen. Right now I know 4 Chinese guys who are dating more then 3 girls at one time…….. do I think that’s pathetic yes but I know for a fact that not all Chinese guys do that and I also know that there are Chinese guys that think that is sick as well. Same with Western guys in America I knew 2 or 3 guys who did the same thing dating more then 2 girls and I knew western guys that also thought it was sick, same goes with both Chinese and Western girls so don’t think its only guys, I have met a girl here in China who has had so many abortions that she is unable to have kids, hey you go to America you will probably find the same thing. Yeah I know that is an extreme but its just an example that its not only the asian guys and western guys that like to get funky. I think people need to stop using race as a crutch and have confidence in what they do and who they want to be with. I know that not all the girls in china are nice, polite, thin, and loving I have met some nasty and mean girls here and I have seen the opposite. I have gone to a couple different countries and have seen the same things in those countries that I have seen here in China and in America, the only thing different is the government. Now about the sex, everyone wants to have sex I don’t care what culture you are from or what race you are everyone wants it but some desire it more then others. If you are going to say that Chinese people aren’t like that… then you need to stop being a pathetic hermit and get out of your basement or house. The college I am at right now in China has 2 or 3 hourly hotels next to them and I have talked to Chinese people who go to other colleges in the same province and other provinces and they say that they have them too. For those of you who don’t know what an hourly hotel is its where people can go have sex and not at their homes because their parents wont let them do it at home because its considered bad if done before marriage you can disagree or agree with me I don’t care I know what I saw and I know what the other CHINESE people told me. Well hey we have the same things in America just not always by the colleges because Americans will pretty much have sex anywhere there’s no people. So no one has the right to sit there and say that our race or our culture is better or the asian guys are better or the western guys are better. Because since living here for 4 years it seems to me that western culture and the asian culture is pretty similar but the only difference is that the western culture doesn’t hide it (which isn’t always a good thing) and make up excuses to hide it. I love it here in China, China is an amazing place with great people both men and women. Every country and culture is going to have its ups and downs but sitting here and complaining isn’t doing jack. So for the asian guys you are selling yourselves short and feel that you have to blame western guys for making things hard for you, I am sorry but I see that as an excuse so you don’t have to do anything but bitch and complain about it. There is nothing stopping you from meeting western girls or having them as girlfriends or even wives, if you are blaming your problems on western guys because you cant get a girlfriend then your pathetic and you have no right to sit there and slump all of us together. Now for the western guys….. you have your reasons to go and date and/or even marry an asian girl but if your reasons are low and pathetic and think of them as only toy to play with then you better be damn ready to face those consequences the come with it. Because let me tell you if I meet a western guy who does this or thinks this way I will beat the shit out of him for give not only Americans a bad name but all the other western countries a bad name. For me when I find the person I want to spend the rest of my life with I am not going to be looking at their race, their culture, their religion etc. I am going to be looking for their personality…. someone that I can laugh with, someone I can cry with, scream and yell with, be my best friend and a crap load of other things, oh and yes I will want to have sex with her all the time!!!!!!!! because her personality will turn me on like no other!!!!!! lol hahahaha whats important to me is personality that is a huge turn on. I don’t care what anyone else thinks about me. You can sit there and tell me that I am a lying sack of crap all you want that’s fine, because I couldn’t give a rats hairy butt hole about what you think of me. That’s your problem not mine!!!! as long as I know the real reason why I am with her that is good enough for me.
Just to say that none of this is supposed to be offensive to anyone. if you take it that way then you think to much! I wrote it to show you how stupid everyone is being arguing over this. Everyone is different so don’t slump a whole race together just because you see one or two things. That’s like me coming to China thinking everyone is a master of kung fu (which I think would be awesome if that were true!!! haha)
oh and sorry for making it really long! ha
Yes you perfectly RIGHT man!…and i like very much asian girls too…i wish i have a wife like that
i think that asian ladies are beautiful. i have a girl from the phillipines. i am not america i am a white guy form south africa. she is amazing. and the biggest thing is that when there is a problem we will do everything to rectify it. they have beautiful skin and just seem so pure.
I dk but i’m thai n i like white guys i like theirs look n personality i don’t like girls who like older white guys coz they’re just want money
personal i like very much Thailandez women and japoneze…uhh if i would find some one for me somewhere!
I wish people would stop saying asian girl this, asian girl that..they’re not one race or group! Say what you mean! Thais are totally different from, Philipinos, who are different from Chinese, who are nothing like Japanese, who are nothing like Vietnamese, or koreans, mongolians, malaysians, taiwanese, burmese, cambodiam, etc etc etc.Of course within each nationality there’s usualy at least 2 religions, often many more, and a variety of languages and dialects. For example the majority of Philipinos are catholics and most Thais are Budhist, but many are muslin etc
Personally I like Thais, (Partly because they’re the foreign country I’ve seen the most of) I’ve been to Thailand 3 times for a total of about 12 weeks and met everyone from retired military general to primary school kid, bar girl to 40yo virgin, housewives grandmas, rich an poor, and almost completely without exception found them to be polite and helpful, and many to be beautiful fun and very sexy. Like most people everywhere if you learn a few words of the language and respect them and their culture, you’ll get along fine. Sawatdee Khap! Thai girls! Suay suay! (I’m an Aussie) Sadly too many think that anyone with white skin is rich and wonderful, but of course far from true, although many seem rich in Thailand, back home they’re just regular working guys, renting or paying of they’re home.Some good, some bad, some very bad!
okay Jim understand you’re an aussie and i supose u have seen a lot of asian women that is why you speak so easy about these women, but i am from europe where asian people are not so spread. …and now i tal u all a little ‘’secret” of mine that’s why i want to migrate in Au just for asian women ,i hearsay there are a lot of such dolls
To Ned Kelly:- There are beautiful women of every nationality here and even more butt ugly ones.Suggest you visit before you migrate, and stop for a couple of weeks in Thailand on the way.(too far for non stop flight anyway, >20hrs to aus) There are more beautiful women in Thailand than there is population of Australia!
I love asian women and as a white man I must warn asian ladies that they must be careful with meeting men of an race or culture on the internet. There are a lot of weirdos and mean people in this world and as a man who loves asian women I want you all to be safe. I have seen a lot of lies on the internet insulting american men who date or marry asian women but most guys want a woman they can love we are not looking for a maid as some people say. I like american women but I also like asian women.
ooh and guys let not forget about mongolian women ,all those are so adorable,but in same time take care of mongolian males ,they don’t like us!
well, just a thought..
in my opinion, all women in the world are just the same. the upbringing and cultures that differ them from one another. why Asian women likes white guys and vice versa? i think because they see the white guys are unique in skin colour as well as the characters. same way as the white guys see the asian women.
western women are taught to be independent even after marriage. while asian women are taught to serve the husband and family and be obedient since the husband is the head of the family.
but as time gone by, many women in asia are now brave enough to speak out what they want. they don’t have to spend their time only for taking care of the family. but also help the husbands supporting the family by also finding jobs.
the advance of technology and the ability to speak out influence them in making their preferences as well.
personally i like white guys because i live in a multicultural family. i work in an office owned by an italian guy and american lady. in my daily interaction i have to communicate with overseas. during my spare time i hang out with my friends from overseas whom i know from my previous job as an english teacher at one of famous english courses in surabaya, east java.
why white guys? well i think because they are more straight forward and willing to be criticized. since i am a straight forward woman myself and like to speak something bluntly, i find a match in white guys. an argument is more like a discussion. something you hardly find in my local men characters.
actually there are other things, but for me the main thing is as mentioned above.
1 reason why we (asian girls) prefer white men bec they are more passionate than our asian guys.. true, asian men make the most sincere and respectful husbands.. but that’s the thing, they respect us too much LOL.. and tend to be so serious bout life.. unlike the white guys who i find more interesting and fun. pls don’t get me wrong, i don’t like to be treated like a whore or some asian slut.. but just based on my own experiences and observations, asian men lose the passion early in the marriage.. becomes so lax and too comfortable in the relationship.. women want passion, romance, and yes, sex.. lots of it ..
but not the mechanical kind like what our asian husbands tend to do.. i think white men brings out the sensuality in an asian woman, who needs a lot of coaxing bec we were brought up to be always mild mannered and traditional.. so we prefer a guy who can nurture our sensuality. although of course some asian women also just go for the money white guys have.. but oh well.. that’s just my 2 cents worth..
I’m engaged to an asian woman and one thing she said to me about why she likes white guys is simple. in general they treat women better then asian men. as you mentioned we tend to spoil western women and over the years they come to expect that and as such get “bitchy” while the asian women don’t expect it they do like it and at least in the short term feel more appreciated because of it which of course is why we do it. the trick i guess is to not “spoil” them. give but don’t give to much, it’s a fine line and hard one to keep track of. but i would agree most asian women are a lot more loyal then western women after they settle down they focus on the family and are not nearly as selfish as a lot of western women. (not all ofcourse plenty of nice western girls out there:)
To, that was a cool comment,
Hi, I read some of the first fellows comments about Asian women, and I wonder if he’s married to one. I am, and maybe I got a dud, but she is a Filipino, and Solomon’s statement: “It’s better to live in the corner of the attic then with a contenteous woman”. My Filipino wife of 5 years is the most contenteous woman I’ve ever known. I’m 65, 60 when we married, and she was 45. Our first night at my home she raped me, litterally, as I had told her I wanted to wait until we were married. (I didn’t come as it wasn’t sexy). After that all she wanted to do was argue, to make me believe what she believed, no matter what. If I don’t agree I am brow beat until a fight ensues. A month later I asked her to leave as we fought every night/day. She flew to NY, so she said, as she lied in every word that came out of her mouth. She still does. I did not care I never wanted to see her again. After a week she called me TELLING me she was coming back. I owed it to her that I marry her. I used her by being intimate. That’s why she raped me so she could say that. I felt no guilt, I told her not to come back, BUT, she did, well, no, another woman did, saying it was the first one. Very different, but she swore she was her and I was crazy. Well, this one argued too. Well, I married her so that she could get a citizenship, and her daughter who was in college in the Philippines. Well, I figured if I married her, MAYBE, maybe she’d appreciate it enough to settle down. Nope, not only did she argue, but she did strip teases in front of the windows when cars were parked outside. I know as I told her not to go into the living room as I hadn’t put the blinds down yet and a car was parked outside with a guy sitting in it. She said, “Your house, your rules”, went in there our of the bathroom, stood in front of the window a few seconds dropped the towel and stood there with a bra on, bra only. I went it there and asked her how long she was going to expose herself, no comment. I went back into the bedroom and watched her thinking I’d never love/care about her ever again. That was 3 months in to the marriage and I hate her still. BUT, I feel sorry for her as she does things that have destroyed us, and she can’t help it, why, I do know. She’s a Filipino. That’s right, she jealous, she’s insecure, these are common charactoristics of Filipino’s. She was divorced in the Philippines and I read the judges comments and Physchiatrist comments. He said, “There might be one man in a million who could live with, $%^&, and if she finds that one maybe, maybe she can have a happy marriage. But if she cannot find that one in a million she should remain divorced”. I sware that is what he said. The sad thing now is maybe 3 to 5 hours out of every day she is normal. But she does not allow me to touch her pussy, hates me to do oral sex on her, last time I tried to make love to her, this was her comment while I was down on her. “I told you I don’t like that, (smiling as she said it). I said, I’m just trying to find something that you’ll like. She said, “I told you I don’t like that, just come on up here stick it in and get it over with”. My blood boils just to write that.
She’s the lyingest woman I’ve ever known.
She hates sex, at least with me/or her husband. She’s flirty with others.
She never made breakfast for the first three years.
She’s put drugs into my pill bottle.
She worked friday night until saturday morning sitting for old woman: I called her at work one night when I needed her and someone else answered her cell ph. Hung up on me and in about 5 minutes wife called me telling me she couldn’t talk when I called.
Here’s what I really hate, HATE!!! When I catch her in a lie, she’ll tell me I’m stupid, I’m confused, I’m old, ect. Never, never admitting she lied.
She’s gone now up North, visit, and I took her to the airport and told her right before she got out, don’t come back. She will. If I only had the balls to lock her out, but I’m a good person, and I hate myself for that. Listen to this. I sware this it true: She worked 2 years at a good job, insurance, and never once offered to spend her money for utilities, or other regular things. I bought a car so she could drive to work, and she drove once and didn’t like walking two blocks so I took her until she was laid off. Now hear this, seriously, she told me her Filipino frinds and relatives, could not believe I was going to make her pay half the utilities here. Now I am retired making total about $19,000./year. She was making the same, but did she help, no, did her people think she should, no. Speaking of no! We have sex, maybe one time every 1 1/2, to 2 months. I masturbated one night right beside her, she got up and left becasue I asked if she’d touch my penis to help me. Afterwards she came in there and said, “This works out good, now that you can do that,, I won’t hve to worry about staying up at night. (one night every two months. Are all Filipino’s like that. She’s no better then trailer trash.
To Annie who comments on Asian girls, sterotyped as petite, bubbly, ect:
I’m Wayne and commented about my Filipino wife who lies, argues, works and makes more then my retirement, and won’t pay a penny for out utilities, ect. But, I just have to comment about what you said Annie:
My wife said, Before we married, “Filippino women never get fat like American women. It’s in our genes to stay petite. Ha! She was at that point, at 40 up, maybe younger, a Filipino woman gets that pregnate stomach look. Then her face got those big old jouls in her cheeks. honestly, she resembles a piggy. I’m sorry, I’d never tell her as mean as she is to me, calling me an old man with a limp dick, and worse. I cannot hurt her, if I only could I could leave her. Or send her packing. Let me say this. This is the truth. I have a back injury, surgery, the works. I’m healthy, work out and am actually in better shape then my 17 year younger wife. Yet, due to back I cannot always get it up, or, more likely, the fact that my Filipino wife won’t allow me to touch her, or no foreplay, no kissing, just stick it in and get it over with. Maybe that is why I could not get it up. So, because I thought it might be me, and maybe that’s why she’s so hateful, I went and got a penile implant. It’s been several years since I got it, and we’ve had sex , (not made love as she doesn’t do that), used it5 to 10 times. And then she’s bitched because I’d ask her to make love. The only reason she’s with me now is becasue she gotten fat, ugly, and I look younger then her now, therefore she won’t leave. I thought she wanted my SS and retirement, which I’m sure that’s why she won’t leave, but she wants more, she wants my soul. She’s jealous, and she can’t stand me possibly finding love if I boot her out. She doesn’t want me, but she won’t allow anyone else to have me. So, she’ll be trying to come back in a week, and maybe I’ll say that old familiar word she’s taught me so well. “No”! I ran out of room on the other one I wrote so I would like to finish here, so as to be fair. Please, I realize all Filipino’s are not like my wife. She’s sick, the judge more or less said that. I should have never married this Filipino woman, but I did. But to be fair, I know several other Filipino women and 50 per cent of them seem OK. But I will say this, be sure if you are a man and you want a filipino wife, be sure you get the right 50%, because if you don’t, you will pay. The bad part of the 50% are bad if, IF you want to wear the pants in the family. And this is important, don’t ever, ever everever marry the first born girl in the family, as they think, THEY THINK everyone, and I mean everyone bows to them. That’s how it is I think in the Philippines. I say, I think, cause I have never been there. My wife went after we were married, and I wanted to go, but she dared me to go with her. I was not allowed to go with her. She didn’t want me to meet any of her family, ect. I think she was a ‘no telling what there’. The sad thing is if she had been a whore it woudn’t have mattered to me, heck, I’d not mind being married to a whore if she was kind and gentle natured. I will say this, I’d much rather be married to a whore then this bitch I’m married to. But, I’m ashamed to admit it, but even after all the abuse, my heart hurts for her. I think she’s sick and she can’t help it. Or, it’s the way, THE WAY, Filipino women are. I hope not, but I know a lot of guys who have problems with their women. I’m thinking of one right now who is weirder then my wife. Culture Shock maybe, for 5 years, gee! But, let me say this, I’d love to have an Asian wife who was like we think asian women are. Yes I would. And if I can get her to move in with her sister or her daughter who I got her citizenship too, well if she will move in with them, I will go to China, Japan or Thailand and try to fine one who is normal. However, never, nevernevernever again will I have anything to do with a Filipino woman. Oh Annie, about the fat talk I started with. What erks me is my wife laughs at the fat American women now and doesn’t notice how she looked a few months ago. I take my wife to the gym and work out with her so as to help her work out. she likes it that way and I have always worked out, but gee, fat happens and we shouldn’t laugh at it. In all honesty, I’m a breast men, and my last wife had A breast, and I loved her dearly. But this one has A’s I guess, as I don’t get to see them often. Not tits is OK, but not if your being abused as I am. Then I ought to get something from or for it. I really think the Japanese women and chinese women on the computer are really pretty, and busty. But maybe Thai women on the average woman has a C breast. Oh well, she’ll never leave, never, so, close.
sorry for you Wayne..ohhh i don’t know what to say ,your story make me now thinking twaice befor try something with a Filipino woman or other asian…well what else i say guys if u looking for some wife frendly careful and trustwordy just come here in east europe in my country Romania and u will find here a perfect wife …but ohhh unfortunateli for me and other ramanian males have no chance because the romanian women are hate us ,but if u are from other coutry it’s perfect coz you ar Mr-right for such women anyhow Good Luck !
WELL DONE PPL …. DAT SURE WAS ONE HELL OF A DISCUSSION…
WELL Y DO ALL WHITE MEN WANT ASIAN PROSTITUTES AS THEIR WIVES >> SURE SHOULD BE THE NEXT DEBATE !!
NO OFFENCE INTENDED BUT JUS A THOUGHT
ANYWAYS I AM AN INDIAN ….. & I DONT WANNA BE THE ONE PROVING HERE DAT I HAV A SUPERIORITY THING GOIN ON .. BUT REALLY IF U GUYS R LOOKING FOR A COMMITMENT…. THEN INDIAN WOMEN ARE JUST D TYPE …. THEY R BEAUTIFUL SMART N EXCELLENT HOME MAKERS….
BCOZ AL D ODR ASIAN RACES WERE MENTIONED LEAVING MINE BEHIND SO I THOUGHT WHY NOT ENLIGHTEN U ALL !!!! LOL
HAPPY WIFE HUNTING GUYS !!!!
Wayne you best think about divorcing her and not waste anymore of your life with someone who makes you miserable like this. She cannot make you be with her if your don’t want to be with her so start the divorce proceedings pal. It may cost you to be sure but atleast you would be free of her and a lot happier . Once devorced she is not elligable to collect any of your social security or what other pension you have or will have but you will take a hit if you have property , but hey nothing is free ‘ get rid of the bitch and be far happier.
Wow so many of you all went for the Filipinas. I visited there but it’s so Americanized, you can hardly distinguish a filipina from an American born one.
In my opinion, women in their culture really look at foreign marriage as a money transaction. They pretend to be righteous and faithful catholic wives, but they’ll sleep around occasionally.
I know a lot of Filipinas and I hate to talk badly about them, they really are so sweet but I’ve seen a lot of white guys get burned by them. YOu don’t even understand that foreign marriage is one of the biggest industries in their economy. They’ve been preparing to marry a foreigner since they learned to watch TV.
Chinese girls, now they are often oblivious to foreign marriage. They will hold you up to the same standard as a Chinese husband which is hella high. Why go fishing where everyone’s got their line in the water?
Well,i like Korean girls,it is true even there are very beautiful girls in South Korea,i only date the most beautiful ones,like the ones who are models or plays in movies ,That,s the best thing there you can find the most beautiful girl in the world on a cofee shop.The korean woman,s you might think that if they have important jobs,they are succeseful,they behave like western bitches but,they are still as inocent as any other.You can,t find better than that God damit !
I think it’s hilarious to assume that foreign Asian women will marry a white guy for money… as if a native white woman wouldn’t do the same.
I am marrying a Filipina I met while working in Manila for an American company. She’s leaving her homeland for me. I’m not rich. Her lifestyle will not be remarkably better with me, even in the US. I have no doubt there are bad Filipina women, but certainly no more than with any other ethnic group. I’m not looking for a slave, and she’s not looking for a meal ticket. We just connected.
Sure, there are creepy 60 year old white guys who go to Asia for 20 year old poor girls, and that’s sad and weird and wrong. But that’s not the rule.
As worldwide communication becomes essentially free, and travel cheap and safe, there will be more mixing like this. It’s a good thing. Inbreeding is bad, both culturally and genetically.
BUT, I will be honest. I do enjoy having a more traditional relationship. I do like being the guy, and her being the lady. Heck, we had a chaperon on our first date, and she was 35 at the time. And I didn’t mind. It showed me that her family cared.
Today it seems the American female ideal is just a guy with a vagina. That’s not appealing to me. I didn’t realize I had a choice until I started working abroad. And yes, I could easily be called a dinosaur — but truly, I’m not. I just like a world with roles and a little formality. I like the dance. Today, equality has become equivalency… and that’s boring, and inaccurate. There are some things women are better at. There are some things guys are better at. I wish we would develop a culture that appreciated that, instead of lambasting it.
so!…what else can we do guys?,..what we have to choose…white woman (from europe) like now arabians ,indians ,africans everythink bunt not us,in USA i gather white woman likes black ….so only one solution for us is asian woman …but the question is who is the best from all ?!
My bf (who happens to be a caucasian) told me a few months into our relationship that he has “Asian fetish”. I was shocked because being an Asian myself, I felt objectified. He explained that perhaps “fetish” isn’t the right word but he prefers Asian girls because of Asian girls are polite and well-mannered etc. Can you guys really look behind the fact that we’re Asian?